(((((((((((Griffe)))))))))))
I'm sorry that these supposed "friends" are such jerks. You deserve better, and if they are that cruel and that mean you should take them out of your life. I had to do the same with some friends irl that didn't understand how extreme my anxiety is and how it wasn't funny for them to trigger it.
This guy has no right to call you and be mad at you over that jerk that did such horrible things to you..I wouldn't answer his calls anymore. I understand how you feel..my mom just doesn't get that I don't want to talk about the car accident and yet she brings it up all the time, espically when we are in the car, which just makes me shut down and kind of float off into my own little world.
I hope things get better and I'm always here if you want to talk. And Griffe you should like yourself you are an awesome and caring person.

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