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Old Feb 18, 2022, 02:19 PM
Etcetera1 Etcetera1 is offline
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I am sorry, I know you aren’t asking me but In general sensible people and good parents wouldn’t share pictures of their children with strangers. Not safe and irresponsible. Also moving too fast and sharing too much smells of love bombing/manipulation. Sensible people build relationship slowly and naturally

The person either lacks common sense or isn’t a responsible parent or is manipulative: some men know what women like to hear, so he thinks if he projects the image of involved daddy and a family man, she’d be more trusting right away.

Sure sadly some women fall for this behavior.
No worries and thanks much for the answer! I can see how it would be about building an image for trust.

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Originally Posted by Rive. View Post
Hi Etcetera1,

basically, what divine said.. Too many red signals. It is not appropriate to send pictures of children over the internet. A responsible parent would protect their child and not send pictures of their child to random strangers. You don't know who is on the other side of the screen (predator?). What that guy is doing is dangerous.

Not to mention sending pictures of one's (if the child is even the guy's kid!?) child after *one* week? It sends the wrong signals: overly eager... possibly wanting to show 'I am serious and want a serious relationship' when that might not be the case... wanting to 'trap' the woman on the other side of the screen by saying what she would want to hear.

Much too fast, inappropriate and definitely not the sign of a good parent.
Thanks much to you too. It makes sense especially if I think of sending things like pictures of intimate family life.