I have found these Forums to be a nice place. The people I have met are kindly and compassionate. I have yet to encounter anyone here who is mean-spirited or cruel. No one has ever put pressure on me. I hope that will be your experience too.
Trauma can be so brutal and life changing. I am so sorry you were the victim of multiple traumas. That is really awful. I find it incredibly difficult to reveal information about traumas I have suffered so I can definitely empathize with you.