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Originally Posted by Etcetera1
I don't see anyone putting you on trial here. Sounded like a genuine interest in your circumstances, even if the advice given was perhaps not fitting. Hope this helps
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It does not. The specifics of my job situation make zero difference to the idea of looks being one thing we may not consider in why people are so cruddy to us. Other than, you don't want to accept the premise so you try to find some evidence that I am "doing it wrong".