That was very nice of you and I hope it works out. I myself cannot live with someone so I am really unqualified to give advice. Hopefully other members here on the Forums with more knowledge, experience and insight . . . and real life wisdom will see your post and respond to it in both a kindly and helpful way. I think CANDC has offered you some good things to think about. I am so sorry that I could not be helpful to you in this matter. Sometimes one wants to offer advice to someone in order to help but is at a loss for good ideas. But I do hope that things will work out for the best for you!