I've been away for a few days (or maybe a bit less) It's been a weird and hard few days (I'm not telling anyone what's going on, I'm sorry if I'm seeming secretive. I will tell some people some time. Nothing about anything here (obviously) Papa bear (my husband) is happy just confiding in me. I tried at one point to get a bit closer to one of his siblings (they don't live locally, so it was on the phone) but I didn't much like the results, I felt like I was being misunderstood. I guess his family are very traditional and don't understand (or maybe want to understand) someone who is a bit different. And I do not think they understand mental illness, abuse issues etc.