I'm sorry your t is sick and in the hospital, pre. It's so hard. When L had covid early on in the pandemic, I kept checking in with her like weekly (I was rather relentless about it I am ashamed to admit as I was so worried about her) until she told me she'd been admitted to the hospital with it, then I stopped emailing her so she could rest and not have to worry about me worrying about her. We'd been on a break at the time, I only found out she was sick because I'd called to try to schedule a session/end the break. She's going to be 72 this year so not quite as old when she was sick, but still up there. I'm glad you're able to text her cheerful things I'm sure that is helpful. I wish for a speedy recovery for her.