Hi rainbow32,
sorry to hear this, it must be very upsetting for you all.
sounds difficult though to resolve, perhaps ,on a forum like this, as trust and annonimity ,are vital to the integrity of us all.

but truthscan emerge where pain and the relief of pain exhists!

keep trying, be patient ,something or somebody might come forward with a better suggestion and/or next step to take.

good luck

keep going......