I have a hard time talking about family members in therapy. My parents for example are not the same people that they were when they were raising me. So it feels wrong to talk about the past with them because that is not who they are now. My current therapist and I tend to keep the talk on the present and she thinks my parents are a tremendous support (which generally they are just not about SH stuff) but I wonder what she would think if I told her how they were when I was growing up?

HUGS therapy is just plain hard. Kit