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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967
I am fighting myself not to return to him. I tell myself some pain now is a whole lot better than total devastation and possible danger later. The problem is that I really loved this guy and have never felt so loved, cared for or supported. It’s too bad there were so many other issues that could not be overcome.
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A heartbreak never feels good. Something was good. Other "tings" pointed at another direction ... Be glad, Jennifer, that it is over, even if it does not feel that way at the moment.
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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967
I have 3 dates lined up but no stomach for it. Maybe I should focus only on recovery right now.
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If I was in your shoes, I would have focused on my recovery. As others told me: "It is never wise to go from one relationship to another. It can so easily end up in using the other guy as some sort of substitute for the lost one". So they say, but of course the one who wears the shoe knows best.
Sending good thoughts your way!