Hi All,


So my T is 73 (her birthday was yesterday) and yes I think it's weird I know the day and how old she is. We have been having our sessions via phone calls because her teeth have been at the dentist. She has dentures apparently. So for like 3 weeks we have had phone calls.


Today she got her teeth back from the dentist and she sent me a selfie saying Teeth! A bit random and odd. Now I have a selfie of her that I can attach to her phone number, I guess. So I guess this means we can Zoom for our appointment tomorrow instead of having a phone call (but a text saying this could have accomplished the same thing).


I don't know why it bothers me. I guess it feels like she is a little too comfortable with me. A little too familiar. I've been seeing her for a few months, so I still feel like I'm in the getting to know you phase. I know I will never bring this up with her but it sort of weirded me out that she sent me a selfie.


She's a bit affectionate with her words like calling me "hun" or "darling" stuff like that. That doesn't overly bother me but with the selfie, the affectionate words, her telling me she wishes she could give me a big old hug, I don't know, it's a bit much. I think she is just being nice or something but I'm a little weirded out by it all. I know I should talk to her about it but I am too embarrassed. Of course therapy should be this safe place where you can bring up anything but I'm not at that point yet with her. But it sort of feels like she is at that point with me!

HUGS to anyone who wants one, Kit