I guess I'm the odd one out because I wouldn't be weirded out. I mean, it would be kind of strange if I took exception seeing as I don't hesitate to look at her fb or insta and also have no compunction about harassing her via text. I guess if she had a case of crazy eyes, that would be a bit awkward, but otherwise it would be fine with me.

I'm in the south so I'm also pretty immune to being bothered if anybody calls me a term of endearment in passing, particularly other women.

I might be a bit bugged at the carelessness of the hug comment. The therapist did once ask me if I wanted a hug. I did actually want one and she was very careful about not making me feel pressured and that I actually wanted one and wasn't just going along with it. But that seems pretty different from what you're talking about.