My spouse completely blindsided me and now I'll be getting a divorce. We lived happily for years and he was completely normal up until the moment he destroyed the marriage. I don't want to be bitter or go down a path I don't want to. On one hand I'm scared at how easily I'm going through this, but at the same time I'm hurting so bad. I know nothing heals but time but I don't know what to do with myself now. I'm trying to find support groups but I don't have any money with my now changed future. If anyone has any advice or anything please reach out, I don't have any friends and I don't know how to make any.