Someone once said if your spouse were looking over your shoulder at what you were typing on the computer with someone you had some kind of "friendship" with of the opposite sex, would you feel comfortable? If not , then there is something wrong with the "friendship." I talk to my women friends about things that are deeply personal, but I don't go into that kind of stuff with male friends--I don't think it is appropriate & it can lead to emotional bonds that then take away from the bond with your spouse. You could end up being more emotionally involved with the other person & then that can lead to the physical stuff.

To me, the physical stuff is at the end of the line. I don't want my husband being emotionally tied to another female--sharing his deepest thoughts & feelings...that is a sign that something is going too deep in the "friendship."

I don't do cyber anything with males. Just post at a few sites like this or comment on an article in the NY Times or something. Very wary of actually getting a relationship with anyone (such as giving email address) going on the computer. Too many horror stories.--Suzy