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Originally Posted by whatever2013
@ therealstacy:
I'm sorry you're in this situation. The posters above have given a lot of good input. Since you've been friends with this woman for so long, ten years, a long time, i think it is worth having a conversation to try and work it out. I let a friend go last Summer because she was insensitive but i'd only met with her twice and i felt if i had to instruct her on how to be nice to me it wasn't worthwhile. But that was a brand new friend. You've put ten years into this person so it's worth trying to see if you can adjust things so you're more comfortable.
I know what you mean about desperation. I've had a lot of bad romance out of desperation. Trying to get more comfortable being alone, but it isn't easy.
Best of luck! |
You're right. I've put a lot of time and energy into this relationship. It would be a shame to let it go altogether. Being alone is tough. That's one reason I've held onto this relationship for so long. There are degrees of friendship. Perhaps it would be better to be less close. I don't know. It's worth talking to her about.