This is what I think as well. I have tried mentioning couples counseling and she doesnt want to go. I feel like a reall good counselor would notice issues right away but getting her to go seems impossible. My confusion in all of this is that she still tells me she loves me. I even went so far as to ask he if she was still IN LOVE with me. And she said yes. But she wont come home. She did tell me she hates the location of our home. The city, the neighborhood, the schools. And the people in our neighborhood.
She loves our actual house. She has also been dropping subtle hints to me about how many nice family houses are around her brothers neighborhood and how the schools are so much better. But do you just abandon your husband and best friend? Again, we did everything together. Trained, competed, hobbies, collections, spent every minute together, hugged, kissed, laughed, traveled... this is just crazy... I feel so angry every morning when I wake up in our bed alone. So abandoned and betrayed and then, like this morning, my text goes off and it's her, saying good morning, and she Hope's I have a good day and she loves me. What is going on?