Good Posting InkyBooky.

I especially liked the part where you said she should be equally careful with her gifting when it comes to the OP!

I would probably be one of those people who--may this be judgy of me or not--could not see a T who had crystals. I could see a T that had a Buddha or other religious/spiritual things displayed but I would probably draw the line at a crystal. That's just me and my own orientation and what I am comfortable with and not comfortable with. Maybe T has a client like me who she knows would not handle it well and wants to keep the safe space safe for all. But she should have done so in a way that was better for OP. She didn't handle it well.


If I were the OP though I would be hurt and would want a more detailed explanation why T wouldn't accept my gift. Or accepted it and then didn't. Not really sure what happened there.


I would be very upset if it happened to me. I could see why Scarlet is devastated and feeling rejected.