She maybe has other reasons and just didn’t want you to get upset (maybe you get upset when she talks about other clients?) so she makes up something about neighbors . At the same time if she didn’t want you to be upset she could just hide a crystal and then put it out when you are there. But it’s crazy making

I think overall it sounds that you gave a gift of something that’s important to you (a giver) and you want a receiver to use it in some particular fashion. People get gifts they don’t like all the time but since you come to her office she now must have it on display. And why was a gift given? Is it her birthday?

Did you tell her it must be in the office? I just don’t get it why wouldn’t she just take it home and do whatever with it. You’d not know. Or did you tell her she has to have it in the office?

Much of this therapy seems to be revolving around drama with the therapist. In a way situations with therapists could help practicing real life situations but it’s not really real life situation (in a sense of mimicking what happens in relationship with other people). You are now very dependent on her and more drama creates more dependency. I don’t like where it’s all going