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Originally Posted by Soupe du jour
I was thinking a lot about my old psychiatrist yesterday. It is/was a transference love case. (...) It's my doing, as I initiate. I simply have to stop. I assume he likes them enough to not tell me to stop, or simply stop responding. In that sense, he's also quite to blame. Surely more so. It's been since before Christmas that we last wrote. There's never been proper closure in the relationship. I twice tried to say goodbye, but he refused it. Another abnormal thing. It prevents the grieving process from being adequately completed.
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I don't mean to be terrible to you, but please stop this. There shall be a last hour to close a therapy, but if you have had some sort of "not abrupt stop", therapy can have a slow end over some weeks or months.
Since he is not responding, that is a clear message about that "Soupe du jour, you are finished here. The therapy has ended." May be he has understood that you have fallen in love with him and that is why he does not answer you. May be he has problems himself. Stop this!
If you need a therapist find another one. If he really sent "love letters", that may be a crime ... If it is you who read more into his letters than professional kindness, you need to say STOP to yourself. You can google about how to grieve ...
I send my best wishes for you!
