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Originally Posted by BethRags
It must feel very validating and empowering to be addressed by your correct name, the name you have chosen for yourself. Kudos to them!
But being snapped at like that...WTH? Does she have candy issues, or what 
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I ate specfic candy because it reminded me of my old therapist. My old therapist didnt even eat this candy that I know of. I discovered it before the video sessions started in 2020 and It just reminded me of her and It was just how I coped with my grief over ending things with her. But my current T says this behavior is creepy. And she has used the words creepy and weird to describe me before. So she thinks if I know what candy she likes I'll go and buy the same kind. Which I mean that wasn't why I was asking the question, and so what if I did? But shes just been super careful about the stuff she tells me. I dont normally take it personally unless she reacts the way she did today.
But I mean dont other people do things because it reminds them of people they once knew or reminds them of certain times in their lifes? Isnt that just like nostalgia basically?