
Mar 02, 2022, 03:35 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Originally Posted by Mountaindewed
I ate specfic candy because it reminded me of my old therapist. My old therapist didnt even eat this candy that I know of. I discovered it before the video sessions started in 2020 and It just reminded me of her and It was just how I coped with my grief over ending things with her. But my current T says this behavior is creepy. And she has used the words creepy and weird to describe me before. So she thinks if I know what candy she likes I'll go and buy the same kind. Which I mean that wasn't why I was asking the question, and so what if I did? But shes just been super careful about the stuff she tells me. I dont normally take it personally unless she reacts the way she did today.
But I mean dont other people do things because it reminds them of people they once knew or reminds them of certain times in their lifes? Isnt that just like nostalgia basically?
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Of course people do. Nostalgia and sentimentality. There's nothing wrong with it! I just don't understand why your T has an issue with the candy.
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