Well I think it’s fully appalling. I’m totally with you.

If there were a huge disaster here I would find it super weird for T not to verify that I could come in or at a minimum to have thought the issue through. What if you were unable to communicate with her? What if you were suddenly homeless?

I get that some people have really strict policies around paying for cancelled appointments but… we’ve all had to adjust to MANY new things with covid and if AIRLINES now let you cancel last minute without penalty, therapists can find it within them to flexible. Especially for clients who are generally conscientious and respectful of their appointment times.

I guess the question is: can you live with this? Is it a dealbreaker for you?

I really wouldn’t like it. There would have to be a lot in the therapist’s pros column for me to tolerate what you’re describing!