It’s a hard lesson to learn that a sibling doesn’t value and respect us the way we had hoped they would.
Some people do not have the ability to be close and genuinely caring, respectful, and honest.
I learned that my sister is very narcissistic and can be down right cruel and manipulative, controlling and bossy. And my sister is a dishonest liar and drama queen.
My sister turned out to be a very different person than I thought she was.
What I went through the last five years of my parent’s lives was very traumatic and I learned that the motivation for my sister was to extort as much of their money and possessions as possible. She is an evil person and I have had to mourn not only my parents passing and all the toxic I experienced but also a death of the sister I thought I had that turned out to be an illusion.
People can have a very dark side to them that can be very shockingly cold and calculated.
I do not want anything to do with her the rest of my life. Anyone who can do all the toxic things my sister chose to do is not anyone I want anything to do with. Some of the hardest life lessons we learn in life come from our own family.
Where there was love in me for my older sister is now complete disappointment and disgust.
My sister had POA and control of my parents money. Big mistake because she extorted everything she could.
People think you can take legal action? Well that is very expensive and I did get a lawyer but I did not get justice. Justice is very expensive and why people get away with a lot of cheating, lying and stealing.
Last edited by Open Eyes; Mar 04, 2022 at 12:31 AM.
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