In my profile edit place, when I put back my choice under my primary concern & clicked to make it stay, that did make my choice stay there. Also, there are all kinds of intelligence. Some people are good at taking tests, etc., but they don't understand about some really important things. Some people do terrible in school but are wonderful with other things. I have a book that tells about this. It's about spiritual intelligence (SQ). You have special things about you that make you valuable in many ways. This world needs people who love animals, for example, & you are so very loving & caring for your two kitties. You're a really good role model for others who want a pet.