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Old Mar 04, 2022, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted by poshgirl View Post
My friends thought my stepfather was great. He never showed them anything other than the polite side.

Once when discussing his latest unacceptable behaviour, one friend's response was "well, he's never like it with me". The implication that it was something unacceptable I was doing to make him that way. We're no longer friends but the split wasn't because of this.
I’m sorry a lot you had to go through it.
There are more cases than we think like this. Some people put on the nicest social mask and then, behind walls are true monsters.

Your friend wouldn’t ever comment on this personal issue without knowing more about what was happening and (s)he should support you in the best way possible, that is, in this case, listening with detail to what you had to say. 😘
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