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Old Mar 04, 2022, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted by nonightowl View Post
I agree. I take FB and almost everything online with a grain of salt.

Some women definitely aren't "mother material" and should never have been one. I think my mom fit that. Maybe she did it because at that time, it's just what you do. So to conform, she has kids. Everyone else did.

Overprotection is as bad as underprotection or neglect.
Yes, I heard (because I don’t belong to any online social platform, other than this forum) and there’s a lot of fake or at least, not so marvellous as it may seem. Obviously, as it happens in face-to-face social life only that online it’s easier to pretend and there’s the incentive of receiving a like or lots of instant replies.

I forgot to add something. We are agree on both neglecting and overprotecting being harmful. And iI have just recalled my own personal case, I somehow had both, overprotection but at the same time, didn’t receive many care. I always was very confused with contradictory messages. Both equally harmful to built a good self-esteem. 😢
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