I'm 38 and dislike cooking for myself. I'm a salad, sandwich, pre-made food type of person. Anything easy (and hopefully healthy, buuuuut not always) Sometimes I eat dinner at my parents house where my mom sometimes cooks. My mom enjoys cooking though and invites me over. I guess being an adult means different things to different people. But if she works and has another business, maybe she's tired and...lacks motivation.

It sounds like this is something important to you though, that your partner cook for herself and you. Are there any other things in this category you consider red flags? Or just this? Are you questioning whether she will actually cook once you move in?