I agree with you FJ and LT. Trauma isn't just about events. Like you LT, I don't really have events. There wasn't any CSA and there was barely any physical abuse. Even the neglect isn't what most people think of as neglect: I was raised middle-class, nice houses, good clothes, had toys, had pets, etc. From the outside, we looked like the perfect happy family. But that wasn't the whole story.