I have had a problem with other forums. Ones that I first started using when I first got sober almost 6yrs ago and its only been the last couple of monthss that I've finally found the "courage" to let go of them. I no longer believe in what the membership believe in and found i was getting angry at those in the forum because I couldn't face my own aloneness and would rather hang with people I had absolutely nothing in common with then be on my own, but I feel that is now changing for me. This site? No I dont feel the same "pull" to this place, perhaps because I do have now have a good nuturing relationship with my T which I didnt have when I got "hooked" into the other forums. I see this place as somewhere I can say what I feel I have to say and not have to obsess about it all day afterwards.