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Originally Posted by AliceKate
I think your T is merely obsorving your boundaries around the subject. My T hasn't asked about it, either (3 months in), though the subject of sex has come up in some minor ways. Pretty sure he doesn't ask about romantic relationships, because I am not in a place to have one, not because I am inherently unattractive. I'm sure it's the same for you, but maybe you could ask? You could perhaps state that you don't want to talk about it, but were wondering why the T hasn't asked (?)
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Yeah I guess that could be possible, but how would he know what my boundaries are without ever attempting to bring it up? He knows I experienced CSA, so I guess maybe he could just be waiting for me to broach it so as to not risk causing me any distress, but it feels like that makes it an even more important topic for him to find out more about. But perhaps he is just being extra cautious. But then why didn’t he ask any questions about it when I first met him during the assessment before he knew anything about me? Questions about relationships seem to be a pretty standard thing during an assessment .
I’m sure if I asked he would be open to telling me, but at the moment I just couldn’t do that because the shame and embarrassment is just too much.