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Originally Posted by unaluna
Good job on setting boundaries! Im still not good at it, i am still passive-aggressive. I do stuff like not answer the phone, but when my mothers sister says, is it alright that i call you? I say yes. Maybe i should clarify that i might not answer if i am in a bad way. Thanks for the discussion  |
Thanks!!
I don't want to tell you what to do but I will say that clarifying that I might not answer if I'm not feeling up to it is something I'd do, or at least would want to do. Are you being passive aggressive or is it just hard to say no? Also sometimes we think "yes," then when the time comes, it's a definite no, lol. Regardless, I do like your idea of making that clarification.