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Yep, at 68, I am living alone on my own farm & seriously, I love when my neighbor brings over dinner or someone invites me over for dinner. My friend also owns a farm & her mom & step dad are now living with her. I was over helping her do fencing one day & seriously, her mom made dinner & what a treat that was.
Lol....as for laundry, I let it sometimes pile up for a month before I have energy to do it. Having the energy after working all day seriously has no correlation to motivation. There have been days when I came in after all day working on my farm & I did without dinner because I didn't even have energy to microwave anything.
Everyone has their own energy level & priorities of what they spend that energy on. You can think that being together would give you the "motivation" but if the energy isn't there at the end of the day, "motivation" is a worthless incentive other than to possibly cause guilt.....which should not be part of a relationship
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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