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Originally Posted by Mountaindewed
Theres stuff I wish I had not told my current T about my transfrence T. If I had just held these thoughts and feelings in I don't think my current T would think I was transferring my feelings from my previous T over to her. Which I'm not.
Somtimes you can give out too much information but you have to decide how much is too much and that can be hard to know. I personally didn't need to spill all the beans and then be stuck with such strict boundaries and a strict therapist.
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Hugs, Mountaindewed, if wanted. Do you think maybe your feelings of transferance may not have shifted from former T to her
because she is being so strict? I honestly think she has a point to act as she does (not telling you which food she eats, for instance), though I get wanting to know, too and feel your frustration.
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