There is no 'should'. Ultimately, you do what you want to do .

However, I would set some boundaries and/or ground rules first. There is something that is not right in this relationship dynamic if every time she says something, you have to snap to it or else you will lose her. IF nothing changes, you will be hostage to her demands forever.

You both need to work on your relationship and communication (e.g. counselling). You need to consider seriously - what if 2 months or 2 years down the line, she does the same thing? Marriage is a compromise not a one-way sacrifice. So, think carefully and set your 'conditions' so you are not her puppet for the rest of your life.