@Soupe du jour

Congratulations on getting things done! Sorry about whatever those difficult factors are, and I hope they clear up.

Your past help from your husband is nice. When I had one, he probably wouldn't have participated, or would have done it once and then said he was too busy. One of the reasons he's the ex. So, like all of us probably, you have some good things in your life to make the hard ones a little easier to bear. Mine are... well, this is a what-we-got-done thread and that goes somewhere else.