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Originally Posted by Rive.
There is no 'should'. Ultimately, you do what you want to do .
However, I would set some boundaries and/or ground rules first. There is something that is not right in this relationship dynamic if every time she says something, you have to snap to it or else you will lose her. IF nothing changes, you will be hostage to her demands forever.
You both need to work on your relationship and communication (e.g. counselling). You need to consider seriously - what if 2 months or 2 years down the line, she does the same thing? Marriage is a compromise not a one-way sacrifice. So, think carefully and set your 'conditions' so you are not her puppet for the rest of your life.
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Yes, I agree with everything you said. Thank you. I feel if I do everything now to save the marriage then I will have no regrets later that I didnt do everything to show her how much I cared, tried, and loved her. The only regret would be hers. I dont understand her at all.
Why would a wife tell you she is still in love with you and that she wants to work on the marriage but then be cold and distant day to day? It seems that once you get to a point of being able to realize you actually do want to save the marriage with your husband, youd really start embracing one another and coming together. That's just me.