I don’t see where this lady in question has severe or any depression and why it’s even an assumption.

First people assume she is lazy then she is not an adult and now she is depressed?

I thought OP explained that she works full time and owns business, she grew up rather quickly having a lot of household responsibilities from a very young age. Now her mother wants to help out with cooking some meals. I thought OP had a good explanation to all this

Why families helping each other is seen is something horrible and negative even though none of it was ever mentioned in the OP’s explanation