I am confused. You are debating and discussing marrying her yet she is already married to someone else. How could you possibly marry her?

She went on getting married while you assumed you are in a relationship. Since it’s very unlikely she married someone the day she stopped talking to you, it’s obvious she was in a relationship with the other person for quite awhile. I am not sure why you can’t translate the message her friend sent you. Plenty of translating apps. Heck send me a pm and I’ll translate it for you

You can’t say you followed her everywhere and know everything about her when she’d be gone for months and one time like 11 months? She is gone for a year. You’ve no idea what she is doing

Well yeah she is real but relationship is a fantasy. It’s non existent. I think you are so afraid of being treated badly that you settle for fantasy with someone who you don’t even know well.

If you enjoy this correspondence then why not but if it upsets you you might want to try stopping it. You ask what’s the endgame. Plenty of people talk to people online, including intimate sex or romantic talk. There is no endgame. Boredom, escape from daily life, who knows. But it’s not uncommon at all. Even if people are married like this woman. If she is married, it’s unwise to keep pursuing her

Please try to maybe meet local people even if just for a conversation. This woman is not it