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Old Mar 07, 2022, 08:33 PM
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Having a kind of up and down emotional day.
My daughter is asking me about what to do about a toxic relationship she has been in for like 5 years. When her and her girlfriend lived here years ago I told her it was a very toxic relationship and that they should split up I mean they fought with each other every day but she would never take advice from either my wife or me.

Well she is wanting to break up now and is asking me about it. I told her that i did not want to get involved and the reason I gave her is that her and mines relationship is the best it has ever been and that I did it want to give her advice because if they broke up cause of something I said and then got back together I did noypt want her to resent me because of advice I gave her. I told her I really just got her back in my life and I did not think I could stand to lose her. I did tell her though that if she needed a place to stay she was welcome to stay here and then I said the door is even open for her brother.
She said she understands where I am coming from and that she appreciated me being honest with her. I mean I honestly want to tell her to run as fast as she can. I live in Idaho and my sister lives in Florida and when I talked to her last she said my kid could move down to Florida and live with her. I would honestly load up my pick up and drive her down there lol. I might ask my sister to suggest that to my kid next time they talk lol.

It's sad but my daughter and I were best friends until she turned 12 or so. She had a real bad experience and she blamed me for not being here to protect her cause I was gone all the time driving truck. She is my rock and I told her she was my hero the other day. She and I did a 180 when my wife passed away and has been there for me through out this I don't think I would be in as good a shape as I am now without her being there for me.
Kind of sucks for me that once again I am not there to protect her again.

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