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Originally Posted by Gawain
I kept waiting for the part where she would start asking for money in some form or another, I'm actually really surprised that never happened, because a lot of he behavior, how quickly the relationship got off and your comments about your perceived self worth really made it seem like you were a classic victim for a romantic scam.
But if there truly has not been any attempt at it for so long then I'd hazard to guess she's has some mental issues, possibly serious ones if she sent you a message hinting at possible suicide, and she connected with you for whichever reason but she's nowhere near stable to have anything even resembling a healthy relationship or perhaps even friendship.
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It could still have been an attempt at taking advantage of OP... she may just have decided someone else was a better target. Like, the person she apparently ended up marrying since then. And keeps OP around too "just in case", useful relationship potential if she needs anything out of him later. You never know. Just because it's been a few years, it doesn't mean anything. She's turned out to be married anyhow based on an earlier post of OP above. Apparently she's never bothered to inform OP of this important fact. She just disappears for long months after a dramatic video that played on OP's emotions, then lets him know she decided she can't marry him, yet does more drama about moving nearer to him, and then continues to withhold all personal information about herself.
It's all just so totally not okay and triggers SO many red flags for me it's not funny. I'm just adding this response to your post for OP's sake.