If people don’t want to talk to you or don’t like to answer your questions, repeatedly contacting them and trying to word your messages differently serves no purpose. Do you want to wear them out so they start responding? I don’t understand

Is the boyfriend ever coming back? What’s he doing in a different country? How real is it that he plans on marrying you? You lived together and then he up and moved? And now ignores you. It’s a little strange. Kind of doesn’t match how one acts when they plan to marry someone.

Are you seeing a therapist?