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Old Mar 09, 2022, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom View Post
So we're seriously considering moving to San Francisco. H's Best friend is there. With the mood he's been in I've been thinking about divorcing him. Honestly I'm not in the best mood but the fighting between father and son really getting to me. I don't think they're fighting will end until Miguel moves out. H needs to be around someone else that can help speak into his life. I need to be around someone I trust if anything happens to H because he has several health issues and we're not getting younger. I don't want to be dependent on Miguel if H can't care for me. I need my teeth fixed, I need to be in walking distance from things to do. Best time to do it is now as we don't like our providers and it's only a matter of time until h looses insurance. I got a glimpse of it and I don't like it.
Think long and hard before you call a lawyer to get divorced! Lawyers will listen to your sob story and say "Awww... yes you should divorce him..." and you'll be off to the races down that path. What would a divorce mean to you in terms of supporting yourself, your health insurance, your income, ability to pay rent, etc. (Not to mention that it costs quite a bit to get divorced.) Trust me- I don't think I would've divorced my husband and broken up the family if i had had a chance to think about it more fully before I made that call to the lawyer.
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Last edited by Moose72; Mar 09, 2022 at 02:31 PM.
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