It reminds me of when Ex T said to me "I think it only fair on you" and "it's only best for you"... Etc. No. These are things she said to make herself feel better about the decision SHE was making. I need time to process the ending. With her. And she didn't give me that.

Sorry!!! Totally about me, but it's why I think it's important to try and at the very least ask him/make him make time for you to have the proper closure.