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Old Mar 09, 2022, 10:59 PM
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The thing is I have a relationship with those people (friendship, romantic etc). So it's like when there is something they don't want to talk about is when they pull this off, and otherwise they want to keep the relationship going unchanged.
Sounds like totally dysfunctional relationships to me. They only want to talk to you when it is something THEY want to talk about & you want to communicate.

You wonder what your BF's plans are & you all talked about getting married? If communication is this bad not married, it does NOT get better after marriage especially if they have no interest in talking about anything that they don't want to talk about. Do you really want to live in a dysfunctional relationship that will just continue to frustrate you more as the years go on because frustration adds up over the years....I know, I have been there (33 years in a bad marriage with crappy communication.)
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