Miss.. showing frustration is not wrong on his part, not categorically. There is not a simple black and white rule to that, just different viewpoints. We have had many threads about that, going back and forth endlessly.. all because there isn't anything black and white about it. You both know between you what works on that front, where the push becomes too much and where the pain is real but part of the process.... even as it hurts, you know?



i hate that part of the process... the pain.. i'd happily pay for uninterrupted T- glow! Screw this getting better nonsense hahaha

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You don't know my T--He is at least as and probably far more stubborn than me

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now.. you know this is prolly half the reason you love the guy... if he were a total roll over you'd be bored and irritated. A match of wits, intellect and well.. yeah, stubbornness is important IMO... which oftens sucks because we can't just make them change their minds. i told T i chose him in part bc i felt he could out-think me at times and i needed that or i would just play games whether i meant to or not. But having a hole poked in one's logic hurts.

we all have to sign on to be a little psychologically masochistic don't we?

hope today is a good day, love. you'll get through it.. One thing which sustains you even through all of the recent turmoil is that unwaivering belief that he cares.