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jinnyann said:
i am aggressive when i am hurting. i am working hard to change that

jinnyann xxxx
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That is unfortunately a common defense mechanism.
I also am working on that.
I applaud you for being brave, honest and insightful enough to share.
The first step to change is awareness ((((((((((((( Jinny )))))))))))))