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Mar 11, 2022, 11:46 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,073
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I think that's not a bad summary for some of these relationships.... but I feel like they have been/were good at pretending it's more than that (I've learned to see through some of this by now). And what bothers me is that people who do seem nice can pull this off too sometimes, and I do want to understand that too and improve my communication when this issue comes up.
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The important thing to learn is those who are pretending (or lying ) to you & learn to have the self-confidence to walk away before it gets to this point.
It's not about "improving communications" with people like this, it is about recognizing this kind of person & staying away from them in the first place & not allowing yourself to get sucked into their lies & manipulation. Learning to be wise with your own life is a valuable skill to have be cause it puts you in control of your own life
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