I probably should have left ex-T earlier, but I was not ready. I wasn't ready when she terminated with me.

If you want to do fun things you can also do games or questions. Those are the two things that really work for me and L. I like playing connect 4 with L, but we've also played battleship, chutes and ladder, I think chess, and we tried to do a puzzle. For questions, we've done "what's your favorite...", "would you rather...", etc.