She has 5 kids at age 33, and 4 of them she had before age if 28. That’s unusual. Is their father in the picture? Multiple fathers? Who’s supporting them?

Now how does she live in with 5 kids in one room at her brothers? Where do they all sleep? In one bed? On the floor? The whole arrangement seems a bit strange.why is her brother ok with her moving in with 5 children unless perhaps he is under impression she’s escaping something?

Also how did a woman with 5 children managed to swim and race and go on date nights and have such social life with 5 kids??? Who’s watching them? People have hard time navigating social life with one-two kids, but 5? She’s still does date nights now and she works and raises 5 kids. Again it’s unusual to say the least

She picks up and moves from supposedly wonderful amazing life to live in one room with 5 kids in a volatile brother’s house. Something isn’t adding up. Have you checked that she actually is at her brother’s? Was the life as wonderful for her as it was for you?

First you said she left because of an argument (what was it about-don’t have to answer of course) but then you said it’s because she disliked the neighborhood. Yet she lives in one room in a trailer so it’s suspicious that the area was problematic for her. If it was she’d move to a nicer place, not to live in a trailer.

Is there more to the story? We can’t tell if she is using you as there seem to be something missing. How was her relationship with other men? What happened to the one she got 4 kids with?

Is there substance abuse involved? On either end?