how does someone know if their self esteem level is right or not?

like whether they know if its too high or too low or accurate?

i mean for example i am certain my self esteem is accurate cause i'm a dirtbag and know it and understand its what i am

i was going to see about one day going to the chat thing to ask this question but have no idea when my work schedule will allow me to go into chat for the qoestion and answer things

idk

maybe this question not allowed willowtigger get yelled at